February 28, 2014

podcast #47 :: apparently I've made it {part 2}

We're all just trying to get to the same place

How do you come back and sum up the last 3 years in a podcast? You don’t. You just come back and start talking again.

CT47 i’ve made it part 2

 

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This is my long overdue promised return to podcasting including a response to part 1 that you can listen to here. So, please bare with me as I jump back into this. I touch briefly upon a lot of topics related to this subject, most importantly:

Value - sepcifically, valuing ourselves and others

I also want to add on to the beginning of the recording - where I suggest that being authentic means truly knowing yourself. I am defining this as, "the willingness to know what beliefs and ideas are yours versus the ones you’ve been carrying around that upon further reflection are actually not yours, but someone else’s". That’s the part of the unravelling, peeling back the layers, that can be temporarily unsettling while ultimately offering a lasting outcome with immeasurable reward. What I’m saying is: Do the work. Figure out who you really are. It’s worth it.

Links relating to this podcast:

Slaves of the Internet, Unite! by Tim Kreider

our move

the porch

handsome coffee roasters

3 reasons , I mean 4 reasons I’m podcasting again:

1) Somewhere, somehow I promised people that  I would respond to part 1 

2) If you are interested in taking my class starting next week, here’s a very up to date read on where I am in relation to our industry. I’m essentially skimming the surface of many topics that I intend to to explore in much more detail in the fish bowl.

3) I’m practicing - sharing my voice again publicly -  for a big project that I’m planning to debut in the next couple of months 

4) there is a fourth reason. I miss podcasting. and quite honestly I’m also tired of hearing {some not all} other people dominating the airwaves with disingenous *bs* that really needs to be addressed. I want to share and inspire in my way; and in a heightened state of vulnerability these past few years I’ve been holding back. Not any more.

Comments (8)

I was delighted to see your podcast in my feed... odd how when you follow someone, you just think you know them and it's not weird when they suddenly pop up again (weird, eh?)

I want to say congrats and excited to hear more of the details of what is going on for you. You are definitely an inspiration and role model! Wishing you all the best from the Tuscan hills of Italy :P ciao ciao

about the topic (I went to read the article) - I think the problem has existed forever in all industries... there will always be those who take advantage and try to get the best for themselves. They are doing it on purpose... not that they don't know any better. For everyone else, it is a case of education and pushing what is "expected" or "accepted" to a different level - specifically for creatives. That kind of thing does take time.

I do think ultimately we all have to work on ourselves, our own personal sense of worth... because that is what will drive our values and what we will accept, push back on, etc... it all starts with our own personal sense of self-worth, I think.

You are so right to hope for the future kind of business model, where it's good for everyone and is sustainable. Let's strive for that!
Marisa,
just finished listening to both part 1 and 2 of this podcast, head nodding...
Perfect example: I was asked to join an artisan celebrity gifting team off of the web last year...i belong to another one, where there is a free portfolio, and stylists can look and request loaners for films....this one, once I filled out the application, involves your paying the owner of the site $75 and upwards to include whatever it is you create in celebrity gift baskets, so there is the money involved in giving away, say, 25 pairs of earrings, or candles or whatnot..... all for the opportunity of possible press...folks in this group get super excited when work is actually accepted and worn, on say, The Voice, but the pieces are not meant to be returned. I suppose you can say 'as seen on'....but...what you are talking about strikes a deep chord with me, as I too, believe, that it takes artists valuing what they do, well beyond giving it away ( and paying to do so!) to change things....
thank you Linda for all your thoughts here and for keeping in touch over the years - I look forward to sharing more and getting the discussion going again!
Kerin, thank you too for sharing here. Always enjoy your thoughts.
Yes, the celebrity influence...I have been having a lot of talks lately about the fact that we seem to be valuing the power of 'perceived' influence more than ever. Especially now that via social media, people have so many numbers to their name. The more famous, the more followers - does this really equal that this person is more valuable or powerful?
Hi Marisa, I'm looking forward to hearing what you have to say, but the podcast isn't working for me. I've tried listening several times, but it gets to a certain point, then goes back to the beginning. I will try the computer next, but thought I'd let you know in case anyone else might be having an issue with iPhone to iPad too. Have a good one & thanks for always having the courage to speak your mind & share.
Marisa, it's so wonderful to hear your voice again. The pod cast brought up many things for me. First, I want to say thank you for sharing your thoughts, ideas and your creativity. This is an important conversation and I'm not hearing much about it, but I'm looking forward to reading the NYT article and sharing it with others. I'll also be sharing your pod cast. I'm currently being paid for my writing, however, my rate is painfully low and I find that even when I pitch myself for corporate work my instinct is to undercut myself for fear of being rejected. So I'm essentially part of the problem. It's true that consumers (of almost any medium) are used to getting a "deal" or a "discount" - especially for creative work. I'm currently working on a couple of Huffington Post pieces and while the exposure and the name on my resume is nice to have the amount of work that happens there (and plenty of other places) for free is astonishing. Thanks for getting me thinking more seriously about my work and my worth and the worth of others.
Hi Lori! yes, I'm sorry but it seems the audio has trouble playing all the way through on a device, Iphone, Ipad however on a computer it plays fine. I'm using the Typepad audio player so I am writing to them to see what advice they can offer. You should also be able to download the mp3, transfer it to your ipod or phone and take it with you?!
Hi Estelle! so great to hear you are writing. Congratulations! and yes, I have heard about the Huffingpost not paying? I find this astonishing, and not ok. Personally I do not find this kind of exposure to be worth it. But then again, you honestly never know what will lead to where. The most important part of the equation is if you are excited and you enjoy what you are writing about. Then I believe it will lead somewhere to supporting yourself with a fee that values you, your time and your work.