October 05, 2009

did I mention

Twa flight attendant

That my mom was once a Flight Attendant for TWA?

And also ~ that I am spending the week with her in Ashland, Oregon. Just the two of us catching up and reminiscing. Hours and hours of conversation accompanied by in no particular order, coffee, tea, a homemade German torte that was DELISH, champagne, wine, more good food including fresh vegetables from her garden, making Spatzle, fried green tomatoes, watching an episode of Mad Men and listening to the music of Pink Martini for starters.

You know how easy it is when you are growing up to think of your mom only as "your mom"? You forget that she is also a person with a full, interesting life, with her own completely unique way of being in the world. It’s really nice as you get older to recognize this. It can take a while to put that child/parent dynamic aside and let your relationship evolve. However when it does you like me may be able to finally get to the know the person who also happens to a mom.

So, technically I’m still here in the work/internet world this week, but if I’m away/and or a little harder to get a hold of for the next few days you’ll know where I am, visiting with Erika.

Comments (17)

Wow - she's beautiful Marisa! Enjoy your visit!
Enjoy your time, you are the spitting image of her.
Can I say, "Holy cow, you look just like her!" And, I hope there are so many little (and big) gems of moments you can put somewhere special to remember always!
Hope you enjoyed Ashland! I moved a lot growing up, but the 8 years I spent-just mom and me- in Ashland were my favorite. I miss Lithia park and it's rose garden and band shell. It's such a pleasure getting to know my own mom as I grow up and treasuring the friendship we share.
Miss you!
i have such fond memories of your mom. she was so kind to me. i remember feeling like she treated us like adults (when we were 15? 16?). please tell her hello for me. and thank you! :)
Lovely picture!!
Sweet marisa, your mama is soo beautiful...just like you! Have a wonderful time with her! Love to you!
What a beautiful post and lovely reminder that our mums are people too! Have a great time visiting your mum. x
Such great shots of your mom. She was gorgeous and I'm sure she still is - inside and out. My mom and I are starting to evolve down this path. It really can be wonderful...
Oh those are beautiful photos. I hope you are having a lovely time with your mama. How could you not? Everything you described sounds so happy.
Wow! Those are amazing pictures of your mom. What a treasure.
Have a joyous time!!
You two sound like my kind of girls! German food, Pink Martini and Mad Men :) Love it!
Oh wow you and your mom could be twins, no? Have fun!
Wow, I thought that was you at first. :)
Sounds like a fabulous week!
She's beautiful. And I can see the resemblance. You may consider that a half compliment for you as well. :-)