September 29, 2009

less is more

Squam sept. 09

You know all the simplifying I’ve been doing? Well what I am finding is that it is now impacting the way I want to communicate as well. {You think you are just moving objects out of your life, when in reality you are actually moving ways of being out of your life while making room for the new}

And the new in this case for me is "less is more".

I’ve spent a big part of the last decade learning how to tap into a life that was right for me. And I’ve spent a big part of that same last decade being incredibly emphatic about my ideas and way of living. Only natural when you feel like you begin to get the answers you’ve been searching for, your whole life. Only natural when you are passionate about a life envisioned, that is finally becoming a reality.

But what I realized just before and during my journey to Squam this time around is that I’m done. I’m done speaking emphatically about anyone or anything. And don’t get me wrong I’m not losing my passion for life and the people in it, nor my excitement for the present journey I am on that involves sharing my joy for the creative life. {Also doesn’t mean I won’t leave you in the wake of a very long blog post from time to time or a video or podcast sharing my thoughts} :)

No, I just don’t need or want to convince anyone about much of anything anymore. If anything I simply want to be more of an example of the way of living that inspires me. I want to hold myself accountable to the idea that actions speak louder than words.

So, you can see I’m not really doing a big Squam Art Workshops re-cap this time. This post will pretty much be it, except for some of the beautiful creations from my students that I plan to share with you in the next few days. And the reason for this is a) I already gushed on and on about it in June. And b) While it was different, this time was just as lovely and because c) I’m not here to convince you of how fabulous it all is. Any of it. 

Also in particular to Squam, it’s clear if you follow the blogging circle of those of us that have attended the gushing has hit an all time high. And don’t get me wrong, in many, many ways a visit to Squam embodies all the things you read about, in fact so much so that it’s just not even possible to express it in words. But I now realize that the best way for me to share my experience is to let you to make up your own mind, to go with no expectations and to stay open to what it all might be.

It’s a little like the photo above. This is one of those photos that I hadn’t planned on shooting. The light was streaming through the trees, the wind was blowing softly and you could see bits of leaves that looked like glitter traveling through the sun’s rays. I wanted to capture the glitter and instead I got this ~ and when I tried to capture another photo like this again, it wasn’t possible. 

Staying open leaves room for the unexpected. And I am beginning to realize that making these discoveries for yourself is what it’s all about. 

Comments (20)

that is a *beautiful* photograph, love
I agree, less is more, I'm still trying to deal with the actual stuff, everything moves so much more slowly when you have four little ones to take care of. Onward and upward.
You walk your walk very well, Marisa. A little less talk just leaves more room for the walking. I love that. Also leaves room for us to find our own walk. So much beauty coming out of you this fall, including that magical forest image. Wish I didn't have to wait so long to see you again. I'd love to "walk hand in hand".xox
VERY well said.
Marisa, you express it so well..i like this "less is more". :) And the photo is just so perfect...so beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing. Have a lovely merry happy day and love to you!
That was so beautifully put. You're an inspiration! :) Thank you for sharing!
I've been losing myself in book after book on simplicity. More and more I'm realizing that less is more 98% of the time. Like you, I've found myself convincing others of so many things, rather than just living my example.

You put my thoughts into words so beautifully.
Thank you so much for the inspiration...in your words and in this beautiful image.
I visit here everyday and never, well maybe once did I comment. I'm really invisible to you but I do indulge in your lovely little space. Today tho, I just had to pop in to say how refreshing. To be honest, I find that the blogs that are very wordy loose my attention span. Not to sure what that says about me? I find that the blogs I return to, the ones that impact me both visually and with words are the ones with less rather than more. Maybe all this blog stimulation, for me, has reached it's saturation point and now a picture with a few words draws me in and speaks to me so much more.
Thank you Marisa for being honest and sharing your heart.
Thank you so much for sharing how you are feeling and the simplicity and everything. I have been feeling this way lately with there being just too much!!!! with everything. 11 years ago we did not have a computer in our house, no cell phones, it was nice to come home and just relax. Now you come home and everyone wants to check e-mail, let me show you this cool site, the darn phone is ringing......... it makes me want to just go live in the trees for a while... and I have never wanted to just go live up in the trees, how peaceful that would be, the basics that you need, art stuff, games, etc. I miss when we used to have 2 hour scheduled power outages living in Guam........ we lit candles, it was so quiet, now the stupid cell phone would ring.......
So beautiful, Marisa. Thank you!
That's so beautifully put. You make me want to go there and experience it for myself.
this less actually says so much more. thank you for your thoughtful words. squam rocked. the end. :-) p.s. one of the first things I did when I got home was read your book to my kids and they giggled like mad. the panda was a particular fave.
beautiful Marisa
xoxo
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This is so true!!! Less is so much more! Thank you for an inspiring post.
well said Marisa.

The photo is beautiful! Look at that pink!

x
It's funny, but I had a conversation about this just the other day. I was talking with my mother about some of the things I have written, and she brought up a friend of hers, and could she please share it with her because she was in need of being "convinced". I told her that I wasn't trying to convince anyone of anything; that I just wanted to share openly with no strings attached. And that was that. Here's to de-emphatic-alizing. :)
Marisa,
This I believe to be true. That expectations can, at times, be a hindrance. That living with an open heart is a much better approach. I am grateful that you posted this. I am grateful to know you. Thank you for being just who you are.
I teach writing at a college, and my class just read and discussed (and wrote about) "The Loss of the Creature" by Walker Percy. Your post fits right in. If you haven't read the essay before, I highly recommend it.
That's my aim, to get to the point where I'm comfortable enough with my self to just be. At the moment I'm still in the "explain everything in depth almost to the point of boredom" phase. You're an inspiration, Marisa.